DEATH – TYRANT AND ARCHITECT   Death is like a bulldozer. It pummels and pounds you leaving bruises and scars in its wake. Some never heal from the wounds it inflicts. The article Coping with Loss: Bereavement and Grief  in Mental Health America reports: The loss of a loved one is life’s most stressful event and can cause a major emotional crisis. After the death of someone you love, you experience bereavement, which literally means “to be deprived by death.” This is my story of death – the tidal wave of grief it unleashed and the end result of my personal transformation. I took the advice of Joyce Hocker in Psychology…